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Is it safe to have BDSM sex with a stranger? Is it safe to have BDSM sex with a stranger?
I saw this personal ad on craiglist about a guy who wants to have BDSM sex. I really want to try this sex to experiment. But is it safe to have BDSM, tied-up sex with this guy? I don't even know him. What if he ties me up and won't let me leave? | | use your common sense. does that sound like a smart thing to do? i would suggest you get to know him better. i have met up with people off of craigslist before but i made sure i got to know them before i met up with them. | How to have BDSM sex without leaving marks? My husband and I have recently been trying out fetish sex. I have experience, he does not.. anyways, I am looking for some way that does not leave marks! help? | Don't hit so hard maybe fine a different toy
With spankings if you do a gradual warm up in strength in the hits it will help
Avoid single tails and canes | Are there any girls out there who would like to some bdsm without the sex? are there any girls out there who would be looking to have a bit of light bdsm fun? i only ask because i have never been in a relationship and its something i think about, a lot, but i don't the sex... anyone? | Cleveland 07/03/10
You will want to hit up a few girls that you can make friends,..only,.!?
Try this,..approach a few,..talk about wanting a few companions,..girls to go to the movies with, study,.go dancing with, maybe,..But,..not doing the intimacy thing,..Not sexual,.just for fun 'n' stuffs,..
They are out there,..just ask,..Bbbuutt,. there be some that may picture you as a Nerd,..Sissy,
etc,.avoid those,.as they are Lures,..
Eliasis Yahwehei ( The Main Man ) | BDSM sex, How do I clean a Flogger made up of rubber strands? I remember having a Koosh ball made of the same material when I was younger, when it got wet it just stuck to itself. I could never get it to un-stick itself and I don't want that to happen to my whip.
I honestly imagine most people on YA are WAAAY too prudeish to answer this. I do look forward to a few YOU'RE SICKs though.
Also, there isn't really a good category to put a question like this under. | Soap and water... Just talc it afterwards.
Come on now, we are talking about strands of rubber here, nit rocket science.
You know, if you had to ask this question because you could not figure it out on your own you should not be using a Flogger! | Why are so many people against/not understanding of BDSM or hardcore kinky sex in general? i dont understand it.
most 'normal' people i've encountered/discussed the topic with get really freaked out at the mere mention of BDSM and their idea of kinky is using fur-lined handcuffs.
why don't more people appreciate the fun and excitement of bdsm? if bdsm freaks you out or you dont understand it, why?
| P.I., BDSM is an acronym for bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism. simplified, it is sex involving elements of power exchange, bondage, and pain--any or all of the above. most people would just see it as really really kinky sex. some people are lifestylers who live in a 24/7 master/slave relationship while others just add occasional BDSM elements into their sex lives--it varies for everyone who enjoys BDSM.
i personally am not a lifestyler but i love BDSM--sex, to me, is most satisfying when it involves pain and elements of dominance/submission. this is perfectly normal, legal, and healthy as long as its SAFE, SANE, and CONSENSUAL.
i think that a lot of people think it's "abnormal" or "wrong" because they are misinformed or ignorant and incapable of accepting the fact that just because they personally aren't into something, doesnt mean it isnt enjoyable for others. it's not wrong. | Hey, just because I like BDSM sex, does it mean i have to follow the BDSM life style? Look, I'm a nice guy, i'm not mean, nothing. But when it comes to sexual, I like and want get kinky in bed. And i'm talking rough sex. Not going into details, but you should get an idea. I know the term for sex is BDSM, but it's also known as a life style. So do i have to follow the lifestyle, or is it possible for me to find a girl who is also nice in person, but kinky in bed? Haha | Firstly, a lot of people in the BDSM community are nice, respectful people, even the ones who live and breath power play and dominant/submissive roles in their day-to-day lives.
I'm a generally nice, fairly inconspicuous, quiet university student doing my Honours BA in History. I'm also a dominant sadist. My boyfriend and I have all sorts of different types of sex and, however nasty it gets in bed, we always revert to something like your average couple afterwards. You don't have to live the lifestyle to have the sex. In fact, it's quite rare that people in this community do engage in 24/7 play or power exchange. It's exhausting and most of us just aren't interested in thinking about it that much.
Good luck finding that girl :) | Does any one know any rocks songs concerning bdsm or sex? My husband is coming home from bootcamp and i wanted to surprise him! :) im looking for songs similar to closer by nin and maybe like peaches, more rock and metal not really into the slow r and b stuff. thanks guys!!! | | Master and Servant - Depeche Mode | Can two people be in a BDSM relationship without actually having sex? and in general,which gender prefers being the dominant and which one prefers being the submissive in a BDSM? Is it necessary to sign a legal document or an agreement for being in a BDSM relationship? | | The two genders are divided about equally in their Dom/sub preferences. You can have BDSM encounters with others without having sex, so yes to your question. If you're in a relationship, you do not have to sign anything legal. Safe words and practices may be outlined in writing for convenience in servitude for either two devoted lovers, partners, or for people in casual encounters, but from what I've read, documents of that type are most often not legally binding. | Christianity and BDSM Sex? So I am a Christian, and know and believe that sex is to be conserved for marriage. That aside, I'm curious what others believe in regards to BDSM (bondage,etc). Do you believe sex involving any form of BDSM is God pleasing? Right? Wrong? Why or why not? | Here's an answer to a similar question that is applicable to your question.
Is Oral Sex A Sin - What Does the Bible Say?
Couples often ask, "Is oral sex a sin?" The best place to look for answers is in the Bible. Hebrews 13:4 says, "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral." The first point the Bible makes very clear is that sex - all types - is designed specifically for married couples. Non-married couples are not to practice premarital sex.
The Bible never indicates exactly what a husband and wife are allowed to do in their sexual relationship. However, there are some sexual principles that we can consider.
Mutual Consent - 1 Corinthians 7:5 says, "Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." This verse indicates that each sexual activity should be mutually agreed upon.
Adultery is Sin - The Bible is very clear that any form of adultery is sin, even if both people in a marriage relationship agree to it. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 says, "It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God." Adultery also includes "swapping" or adding sexual partners.
Viewing Pornography is a Sin - Matthew 5:28 is very clear. "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Pornography viewed alone or together as a couple is sin. 1 John 2:16 says, "For everything in the world - the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does - comes not from the Father but from the world."
Is Oral Sex A Sin - Practical Application
When answering the question "Is oral sex a sin," it is important to remember that God created sex to be a beautiful expression of love for married couples. When the husband or the wife does not feel that sex is a "beautiful expression of love," then changes need to be made in that couple's sex life. Evidentially, the actions are not mutually beneficial to each person. Nothing in the Bible says that oral sex is a sin, however it may not be appropriate for every couple.
Is Oral Sex A Sin - Questions to Consider
Consider these questions when answering the question "Is oral sex a sin?"
Is oral sex voluntary and have both the husband and wife agreed to it?
Why do you want oral sex? Is it for pure sexual pleasure or is it to fulfill a sexual fantasy derived from porn?
Have you or your spouse been convicted by the Holy Spirit that oral sex is wrong?
Does oral sex edify and fulfill both you and your spouse?
While answering these questions, pray for guidance from God. He will reveal the answer to you - for your relationship. |
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